How Much Does an Au Pair Cost in Australia? (A Realistic Breakdown)

One of the first questions families ask when exploring an au pair is:
“How much does it actually cost?”

The answer is refreshingly straightforward, but it helps to see the full picture, including weekly expenses, what’s included, and how au pairs compare to other childcare options in Australia.

Below is a realistic, transparent breakdown to help you decide whether an au pair is the right fit for your family.


Weekly Pocket Money: What’s Typical?

In Australia, au pairs are usually here on a Working Holiday Visa and receive weekly pocket money, rather than a wage.

Typical range:

  • $250 – $400 per week

  • Depends on:

    • Number of hours

    • Children’s ages

    • Schedule complexity

Most placements sit around:

  • 20–35 hours per week

  • Often split between mornings and afternoons

  • Occasional babysitting by agreement

Because accommodation and food are included, pocket money is designed to cover:

  • Personal spending

  • Travel

  • Social activities


Food & Accommodation: What to Budget For

Hosting an au pair does come with household costs, but for most families these are incremental rather than new.

Accommodation

  • A private bedroom is essential

  • Bathroom may be private or shared

This is usually an existing room in the home, so there’s no extra rent cost — just utilities.

Food

  • Au pairs generally eat what the family eats

  • Some families add:

    • An extra grocery shop

    • A small allowance for specific preferences

Rough estimate:
An additional $60–$150 per week in groceries.


Au Pair vs Daycare vs Nanny: Cost Comparison

Here’s a broad comparison to help put things into perspective:

Au Pair

  • Weekly pocket money: $250–$400

  • Food & utilities: ~$120

  • Flexible hours

  • Care in your own home

  • Relationship-based care

Daycare

  • $120–$180 per child, per day

  • Limited hours

  • Drop-off and pick-up logistics

  • Multiple carers

Nanny

  • $30–$45+ per hour

  • Professional childcare

  • Best for full-day care

  • Higher weekly cost

For many families, an au pair sits comfortably in the middle, offering flexibility, consistency, and affordability.


Agency Fees vs DIY: What’s the Difference?

Families usually choose between:

  1. Full-service agency support

  2. DIY matching with guidance

Full-Service Agency

Includes:

  • Au pair screening & interviews

  • Reference and document checks

  • Profile matching

  • Contracts & onboarding

  • Ongoing support during the placement

This is ideal if you want:

  • Peace of mind

  • Time saved

  • Support if anything needs adjusting


DIY Option

Typically includes:

  • Templates

  • Guides

  • Contracts

  • Interview questions

  • Checklists

This suits families who:

  • Are confident managing the process

  • Want to save on upfront fees

  • Still value structure and clarity

Both options can work beautifully, it’s about how hands-on you want to be.


The Real Value of an Au Pair

While cost is important, many families choose an au pair for reasons beyond the numbers:

  • Children are cared for in their own home

  • Flexible schedules (especially for shift workers)

  • Strong bonds and continuity

  • Cultural exchange and language exposure

  • A calmer daily rhythm

It’s not just childcare, it’s a lifestyle choice.

Is an Au Pair a Good Fit for Your Family?

An au pair may be right for you if:

  • You value flexibility over rigid hours

  • You have space in your home

  • You enjoy a collaborative, family-based arrangement

  • You’re open to communication and mutual respect

If you’re still weighing things up, that’s completely normal, most families take time to explore this option properly.


How Sol Au Pairs Can Help

At Sol Au Pairs, we support families whether they:

Our goal is to help families make informed, ethical, and realistic decisions, not push a one-size-fits-all solution.

👉 You can explore our Fees, Family Info, or reach out for a chat if you’d like to talk through your situation.

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